Dan-cat wrote:Well HF is this a long term female friend or a new one you are chirpsing up? Was it an important question or throwaway?
Being non-reactive is key. I usually let the thread drop, text again in a few days and don't refer to the previous thread.
I think you may have blown this one!
Wow!,so many QUESTIONS!,now,let me see if i can be bovered to answer em.
Ok,only cause it,s you,i,ll answer your questions.
It,s a short term female friend,I,ve known her since about 18 months.
I aint,have,had no intention in chirpsing her up,it is/was a pure platonic freindship.
"Was it an important question or throwaway?"
Well i guess it,s a matter of opinion if it,s an important question or a throwaway one.
Many of the questions i asked her,in which no reply came,were simple,everyday,normal ones,eg,....
I,d ask if she had a good weekend,or how was the film she saw at the cinema,or eg,she sent me a photo of a boat,i then wrote,"oh,wow!,looks
,did you go on it?".
The same happened eg,often when i sent her some photos,sometimes i,d do a Hendry and send her a photo of what i was just about to tuck into,or of a nice scenery,place i was at/visiting,or of a nice building,or a fancy car,often she did,nt budge,no reaction whatsoever.
One eg could say,maybe she just did,nt answer,budge,react,purely bcause it did,nt interest her,or she forgot to reply,or even did,nt have time,or,that her battery ran out,whatever,but even so,i personaly find/found it disrepectful.
When i called her up yesterday,just before i told her to go n bugger off,i asked her why she often does,nt reply,she then said that she often forgets to answer,or that she,s busy,or it,s bcause she was,nt feeling good,was tired.
I then said,ok,it can happen,but still,it,s no excuse just to not reply at all,i don,t expect her or others i know to immediatley reply when i write to them,ask them something,for all i care,they can even reply a few days after/later,but to just not even bother to reply at all,i find it disrespectfull,selfish and buckin damn rude.
I even asked her if it annoyed her and if so,then i,ll stop sending photos,stop asking questions,but she said,oh no,it,s ok,i can send her,ask her.
Anyway thats my take of it,oh and btw,she,s Malaysian.
Anyways,.....
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